Sunday, February 24, 2013

Dealing with the Unexpected: A Death in the Church



It’s been quite a while since my last entry. I had expected to have the blog on race and the SDA church up a while ago. However, life being what it is, has thrown an unexpected curveball which has taken up most of my attention since it happened two weeks ago. I’ll get to work on that race and the SDA church blog as soon as I deal with the big challenge that you’re about to read ahead. Therefore this blog will be to update you on what’s been going on, while at the same time serving as a form of therapy to get my thoughts out.

During the second week of February, I was at Lake Yale, FL at the Hispanic Lay Evangelism Festival. I was there with many pastors and members from around the Southeast part of the US having a great time learning about lots of great things to bring back to our churches. When we were driving back on Sunday, I got a call form one of my church members who was concerned that another of our church members had been missing over the weekend and neither his roommates nor the church knew where he was. 

We asked around the community on Monday but no one had any information on him. Finally on Tuesday, I decided to call the police department and file a missing persons report on him. During the course of the conversation from one agency to another, someone suggested that I try the Greenville county coroner’s office because there was a person that was struck and killed on Friday and the details resembled my church member. Long story short, Tuesday at around noon I find myself in the coroner’s office at the major hospital in Greenville looking at the picture of my deceased member’s face…he had been struck and killed by a car Friday morning while crossing the street wearing dark clothing.

To make matters worse, he had no papers. And I don’t mean the typical issue in the immigration discussion of no papers. This brother was born in an indigenous tribe close to the Guatemalan border in Mexico. They didn’t speak Spanish there, only a local dialect. Therefore, when he was born, no one gave him a birth certificate. So when I say he had no papers, I mean that He. Had. No. Papers. 

I wondered how I would respond to this situation. After all, Martin Luther King Jr. once said, "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands in times of challenge and controversy." In other words, someone’s true colors come out when you throw them into high stress and conflict. The same is true of a church.

During this last week, the Greenville Spanish Church in South Carolina pulled together and formed a small army to find this man’s family, clean up his apartment, and give his clothes to people who needed it. He was also a colporteur and had many books about health to spiritual topics. He always dreamed of one day going back to his small village and sharing the message of Jesus with tribe. A visitor this past Sabbath offered to actually pay for his entire collection of books to be sent back to his family (we’re talking about several hundred dollars here)!

After countless international calls, we finally got ahold of his family and I have been in contact with them through an interpreter who is talking to me in Spanish while he relays the information in their dialect to get the details worked out with the coroner’s office, the Mexican consulate, and funeral home. We even had to get counsel from the General Conference due to the unusual case that this was. I’m so glad that I work with a church that has such a broad, international scope of law, ministry and mission; they were able to provide awesome counsel and advice thorough this entire ordeal.

We’re not out of the woods yet. Our brother is still in the morgue and there is international paperwork that has to be processed. Keep the church, and me, in your prayers. However, with the way this situation has worked out, I’m sure that something good will come out of what has truly been a tragic and unexpected event. The brother who passed away, a 33-year-old man nicknamed “Chavelo” was an awesome, gentle soul who would gladly give the shirt of his back to help others even though he didn’t have much himself. The world is going to miss a great guy like him. RIP my friend.